The inenvitability in relationships ! !

 CHANCE - CHANGE !!


Met them by chance ,

Infatuation at that very first glance !

Before I knew , I was caught in that fray ,

Those lips were muttering something , I reckon 

But Those glaring eyes constantly held sway !


Few months into it ,

I started feeling this part in-depth a bit !

One day ,They say you changed , 

And now you don’t fit ! 


But what’s the point of not changing , I said 

I didn’t know you initially , 

That’s why that eagerness and intrigue ,

That’s why those “looking forward”to meet,

That’s why those never ending calls , 

And that’s why those stroll in malls ! 


No rocket science ,just around “6 month getting along” drive ! 

To get to know each other well , 

Atleast enough to know whether it will thrive


 .And then it comes naturally , to a normalised pace ;

Because life is to enjoy slowly , it’s not any race !


The talks become limited ,

The enthusiasm settles .

Relationship takes another shape and form ,

Now other priorities also peddles !


Then why this anxiety and why this fear ,

When both of them knows it’s the necessity mere !

It’s not the “non-attention “ it’s just the standard shifting ,

Then why does one’s ego , always needs lifting !

It’s perhaps the most difficult phase to rationalise ,

Only if handled maturely , then lay the prize !

The prize of eternal love and affection ,

Which stems from long lasting perfect imperfection !!


But the sad part is getting stuck in this loop ,

When that established admiration starts demanding proof; 

Leading to intrusions and constant ego strife ,

The attraction dies and the distrust comes alive !


It’s exactly when , the two makes a decision ,

Tries to reason this with their utmost precision !

Then it’s that pure simple intention that lead the way forwards!

Either it’s the end or a new start again that day onwards!

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